“Therefore whatsoever God hath joined together, let no man put assunder…..
So I say “Are all marriag it ines joined by God????? The God factor in the joining is so essential and cannot be over emphasized in a marriage.
The joining that is not done by God is very susceptible to being “put assunder” even if it happened in the church building!
Unfortunately, certain factors such as parental influence, force of attraction, crush, being good in bed, business, lust, unplanned/unwanted pregnancies, money, fame, tradition, environmental etc.. contributed to the joining of many marriages. This are the reasons why many couples are only enduring and not enjoying their marriages at all.
However, it is a known fact that even the ones joined by God are prone to challenges but never a prolonged one. It will be balanced- Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 “There’s time for everything……
And there remain two sides to a coin. Various experiences in marriage should not be one-sided.
It should be enjoyed even amidst the challenges that are bound to happen!
Therefore it is only marriages joined by God that will stand the test of whatsoever challenges it might face or will eventually face- Eccl 1:14.
Now if the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do? I believe the righteous should repair the foundation! Therefore Shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife. He has to LEAVE…. And CLEAVE to have a fulfilled life and home. Daniel 2:20-22.